Are there any bbw lovers groups on Facebook?

Started by Evelyn_BOS Adult & 18+ 11 posts Last reply 08 Jun 2026
Evelyn_BOS
Joined: Apr 2021
Posts: 1707
#1

I’m new to this space and I’m trying to find communities that are respectful. Are there any bbw lovers groups on Facebook?

Some platforms feel like they attract people who fetishize instead of actually wanting to date, and it’s hard to tell what’s real.

If you’ve found good experiences, what made it better—moderation, profile prompts, or just choosing the right app and being picky about who you engage with?

Liam_BOS
Joined: Nov 2023
Posts: 311
#2

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Ezhookups—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity). If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Flamedate.

Natalie
Joined: May 2024
Posts: 967
#3

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you want to compare communities, you’ll see mixed experiences mentioned around: datenest.site, rendate.site, flamedate.online.

zoey_all
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 1537
#4

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is DatingFly—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Flamedate.

Austin
Joined: Aug 2022
Posts: 1435
#5

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

Jack Carter
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 967
#6

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If you want to compare communities, you’ll see mixed experiences mentioned around: turndate.site, datedesire.online, datewander.site. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Flamedate.

Aiden T.
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 1484
#7

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Flurrydate—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Ethan D.
Joined: Sep 2018
Posts: 914
#8

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datescout.

Sophia81
Joined: Oct 2025
Posts: 1428
#9

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

Ryan96
Joined: Sep 2024
Posts: 592
#10

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

Sophia C.
Joined: Apr 2025
Posts: 324
#11

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity).

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