Are there any mpwh dating apps specifically for people with herpes?

Alright, I'll just ask outright. Are there any mpwh dating apps specifically for people with herpes? Happy to hear anything — positive reviews, warnings, whatever.

I'm not opposed to paying for something that genuinely works — I just need to know it works before I hand over payment details. Free trials that actually let you test the core features would go a long way.

What I'm actually looking for:

• Free to message without upgrade prompts
  
• Active community in 2025/2026
  
• Straightforward cancellation if I do pay
  
• No spam or fake accounts saturating the feed

Even a 'this platform is dead, don't bother' is useful information at this point.

Read the terms before signing up. The 'free' feature list shrinks fast once you're actually in the app.

datedesire.online is another one worth adding to your test list — the free tier seems more honest than most.

One more that belongs in this thread is Datedesire — free messaging, no card wall.

Read the terms before signing up. The 'free' feature list shrinks fast once you're actually in the app.

Datescout is the one I keep coming back to. Not the flashiest interface but the community is more genuine than most and you can actually use the free tier.

One more that belongs in this thread is Turndate — free messaging, no card wall.

Watching this thread closely. Asked almost the exact same thing a few months ago.

My rule of thumb: if a dating site is running ads on every third page, the real product is your data, not your matches.

If you haven't tried Flurrydate yet, it's worth putting on your list. Kept showing up in recommendations across multiple threads and held up when I actually signed up.

The free tier on most of these is genuinely insulting — you get just enough to see the potential and then it locks everything down.