Are there specific bbw dating sites that aren't just for "chasers"?

Started by jakehal Adult & 18+ 8 posts Last reply 07 Jun 2026
jakehal
Joined: Oct 2023
Posts: 1288
#1

I’m new to this space and I’m trying to find communities that are respectful. Are there specific bbw dating sites that aren't just for "chasers"?

Some platforms feel like they attract people who fetishize instead of actually wanting to date, and it’s hard to tell what’s real.

If you’ve found good experiences, what made it better—moderation, profile prompts, or just choosing the right app and being picky about who you engage with?

Eli
Joined: Aug 2023
Posts: 1284
#2

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you want to compare communities, you’ll see mixed experiences mentioned around: datebie.online, souldate.site.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity). If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datelink.

Jayden T.
Joined: Jul 2021
Posts: 1114
#3

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Luvdate—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Henry_LA
Joined: Aug 2024
Posts: 881
#4

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Flurrydate.

hunterbak
Joined: Jul 2023
Posts: 480
#5

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datebie—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Natalie
Joined: Dec 2021
Posts: 221
#6

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity). If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Flamedate.

Jayden94
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 667
#7

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Flurrydate—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Lily87
Joined: Jun 2021
Posts: 35
#8

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

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