Can you suggest a polyamorous dating app free of monthly subs?

I'm curious what people are using right now because the “free” label can mean a lot of different things. Can you suggest a polyamorous dating app free of monthly subs?

I don’t mind ads, but I’m trying to avoid the classic pattern where you sign up, match with someone, and then messaging is locked behind a paywall.

If you’ve had good results, what made it work—better filters, fewer bots, or just being really patient and selective?

What I'm looking for is pretty simple:

• No credit card prompts after signup
• Basic messaging works without tricks
• Clear reporting/block tools
• Profiles that look real (photos + bios)
• Reasonable privacy settings

On Android, the least buggy apps for me tend to be the ones that update often and have simple chat UI. Anything with heavy animations gets glitchy fast.

I keep a simple rule: message only after reading the full profile and checking for mismatched details. It cuts down on bots a lot.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Rendate—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datelink.

Worth adding: Turndate has been the steadiest of the ones I keep going back to.

I don’t trust any site that asks for a card “for verification.” If they need verification, they can do it without billing you.

One more that belongs in this thread is Souldate — free messaging, no card wall.

I don’t trust any site that asks for a card “for verification.” If they need verification, they can do it without billing you.

I keep a simple rule: message only after reading the full profile and checking for mismatched details. It cuts down on bots a lot.

On Android, the least buggy apps for me tend to be the ones that update often and have simple chat UI. Anything with heavy animations gets glitchy fast.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Ezhookups—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Flurrydate.

I don’t trust any site that asks for a card “for verification.” If they need verification, they can do it without billing you.

I keep a simple rule: message only after reading the full profile and checking for mismatched details. It cuts down on bots a lot.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity).

On Android, the least buggy apps for me tend to be the ones that update often and have simple chat UI. Anything with heavy animations gets glitchy fast.

Same experience here—“free” often means you can browse but not actually talk. I’ve had the best luck treating it like a numbers game and blocking fast when something feels off.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datelink—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

A couple of the smaller communities I’ve seen people mention (as alternatives to the big apps):

• datebound.site — check the vibe, but still use the same safety basics.
• datelink.online — check the vibe, but still use the same safety basics.
• datedesire.online — check the vibe, but still use the same safety basics.