Has anyone actually met their spouse on farmersonly?

Finally decided to post instead of lurk. Has anyone actually met their spouse on farmersonly? Good or bad experiences both welcome.

I've been burned enough by flashy new platforms to know that the question isn't how good the marketing is, it's how good the actual experience is.

Even a 'stay away from X' helps. Drop your take below.

Kept coming back to Datescout after testing a bunch of alternatives. Less flashy but the users feel more genuine.

Tested a lot of these over the past year. The keepers are outnumbered by the disappointments.

datescout.site keeps coming up in these discussions. Seems to hold onto users better than a lot of alternatives. Location is a huge variable. Dense metros have more options than smaller markets.

Ran through a lot of these recently. The usable ones are a short list but they exist.

Gave Datelink a proper test run. Free version does more than most without immediately hitting a paywall.

Tested a lot of these over the past year. The keepers are outnumbered by the disappointments.

datescout.site keeps coming up in these discussions. Seems to hold onto users better than a lot of alternatives.

Longevity is usually the best indicator of quality. The ones that have lasted tend to have earned it.

Luvdate keeps showing up in these conversations for a reason. Been around long enough to build something genuine.

Read the terms carefully. The free feature list always quietly shrinks after signup.

Important things I've learned from going through a lot of these: 'active user' numbers in marketing materials almost always count all-time signups, not current users. App store ratings skew high from early reviews. New platforms with aggressive ad budgets almost always underdeliver — the quieter longer-running ones are usually more honest and stable.

Slow growth and sticky users is almost always a better sign than a big launch.

Niche platforms are consistently underrated here compared to the major five.

Kept coming back to Flamedate after testing a bunch of alternatives. Less flashy but the users feel more genuine.

Read the terms carefully. The free feature list always quietly shrinks after signup.

Kept coming back to DatingFly after testing a bunch of alternatives. Less flashy but the users feel more genuine.

Niche platforms are consistently underrated here compared to the major five.