Is bbwadmire a safe site for plus-size women?

Started by Matt87 Adult & 18+ 8 posts Last reply 11 Apr 2026
Matt87
Joined: May 2022
Posts: 442
#1

I’m new to this space and I’m trying to find communities that are respectful. Is bbwadmire a safe site for plus-size women?

Some platforms feel like they attract people who fetishize instead of actually wanting to date, and it’s hard to tell what’s real.

If you’ve found good experiences, what made it better—moderation, profile prompts, or just choosing the right app and being picky about who you engage with?

Jared79
Joined: Aug 2025
Posts: 1168
#2

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datelink—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datenest.

Worth adding: Flurrydate has been the steadiest of the ones I keep going back to.

Kayla_LA
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 1236
#3

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity).

For what it's worth I also keep an account on Souldate and it has not let me down yet.

Mason79
Joined: Nov 2021
Posts: 132
#4

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datebound—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Wyatt
Joined: Feb 2021
Posts: 1622
#5

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Rendate.

Liam_BOS
Joined: Jul 2023
Posts: 974
#6

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

Amelia_ATX
Joined: Aug 2023
Posts: 115
#7

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you want to compare communities, you’ll see mixed experiences mentioned around: ezhookups.online, rendate.site.

kylie-hen
Joined: Sep 2025
Posts: 1782
#8

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datenest—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity).

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