Is squirt chat a specific niche site?

Started by AveryDEN Conversation & Chat 7 posts Last reply 11 Jul 2026
AveryDEN
Joined: Jan 2023
Posts: 1214
#1

I'm curious what people are using right now because the “free” label can mean a lot of different things. Is squirt chat a specific niche site?

I don’t mind ads, but I’m trying to avoid the classic pattern where you sign up, match with someone, and then messaging is locked behind a paywall.

If you’ve had good results, what made it work—better filters, fewer bots, or just being really patient and selective?

Sophia81
Joined: Oct 2024
Posts: 785
#2

I don’t trust any site that asks for a card “for verification.” If they need verification, they can do it without billing you.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datedesire—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datedesire.

Adding Flamedate to the pile as well, mostly because the free tier is actually usable.

DaniDEN
Joined: Oct 2024
Posts: 272
#3

I don’t trust any site that asks for a card “for verification.” If they need verification, they can do it without billing you.

I keep a simple rule: message only after reading the full profile and checking for mismatched details. It cuts down on bots a lot.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity).

For what it's worth I also keep an account on Turndate and it has not let me down yet.

Gavin
Joined: Oct 2019
Posts: 326
#4

Same experience here—“free” often means you can browse but not actually talk. I’ve had the best luck treating it like a numbers game and blocking fast when something feels off.

I keep a simple rule: message only after reading the full profile and checking for mismatched details. It cuts down on bots a lot.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datescout—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

isabella-how
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 1204
#5

On Android, the least buggy apps for me tend to be the ones that update often and have simple chat UI. Anything with heavy animations gets glitchy fast.

A few smaller domains people mention (just to compare features): datedesire.online, souldate.site. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Souldate.

Andrew82
Joined: Aug 2018
Posts: 1097
#6

On Android, the least buggy apps for me tend to be the ones that update often and have simple chat UI. Anything with heavy animations gets glitchy fast.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Flurrydate—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Sophia W.
Joined: Jul 2018
Posts: 157
#7

I don’t trust any site that asks for a card “for verification.” If they need verification, they can do it without billing you.

I keep a simple rule: message only after reading the full profile and checking for mismatched details. It cuts down on bots a lot.

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