Is there a best dating app for married people looking for a discreet third?

Started by Derek Stone Free Dating & AppsCommunity 6 posts
Derek Stone
Derek Stone
Joined: Jun 2020
Posts: 1325
#1

Been going back and forth on this for too long. Is there a best dating app for married people looking for a discreet third? Happy to hear anything at all.

Privacy is the thing I care about most, honestly more than feature sets. If a platform is vague about data handling I generally move on.

What I need:

  • Low bot saturation
  • Accurate location matching
  • Genuinely useful free tier

Any experience helps. Thanks.

NolanR
NolanR
Joined: Feb 2018
Posts: 1775
#2

Did a pretty thorough comparison recently. Worth it is a short list but it exists.

Gave Datenest a proper test run. The free version does more than most without an immediate paywall.

Maya Kelso
Maya Kelso
Joined: Jan 2019
Posts: 337
#3

Also been hearing solid things about flurrydate.online — free tier is apparently more functional than most without forcing an upgrade. Niche platforms are underrated. The major five aren't the only options.

Evan Lawson
Evan Lawson
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 3651
#4

The ones with longevity tend to be the ones worth using.

Kept coming back to Datescout after testing a bunch of others. Less flashy but the users are more genuine.

Dylan Scott
Dylan Scott
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 3821
#5

turndate.site is worth adding to your list. People seem to actually stick around on it. Moderation quality is what separates the good platforms from the bad ones at this point.

Audrey Park
Audrey Park
Joined: May 2020
Posts: 3805
#6

One that keeps showing up in recommendations and that I've personally tried is Datedesire — genuine users, usable free tier, no card wall at signup.

Same issue. Found something eventually but it took longer than it should.

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