Is there a plus size dating app specifically for casual?

Started by Sara Adult & 18+ 8 posts Last reply 24 Jan 2026
Sara
Joined: Feb 2018
Posts: 79
#1

I’m new to this space and I’m trying to find communities that are respectful. Is there a plus size dating app specifically for casual?

Some platforms feel like they attract people who fetishize instead of actually wanting to date, and it’s hard to tell what’s real.

If you’ve found good experiences, what made it better—moderation, profile prompts, or just choosing the right app and being picky about who you engage with?

A few things I’m prioritizing:

  • Respectful community guidelines
  • Strong block/report tools
  • Ability to filter for serious intent
  • Less spam and fewer empty profiles
Levi
Joined: Aug 2022
Posts: 1532
#2

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datebie—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Turndate.

Sophia C.
Joined: Feb 2020
Posts: 271
#3

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

Leah S.
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 1102
#4

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datedesire—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Luvdate.

Jules Henderson
Joined: Jun 2025
Posts: 1535
#5

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

Scarlett Hall
Joined: Nov 2021
Posts: 1703
#6

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datewander—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity). If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datewander.

JackSEA
Joined: Sep 2025
Posts: 1296
#7

If you want to compare communities, you’ll see mixed experiences mentioned around: rendate.site, turndate.site, flurrydate.online.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity).

Jared M.
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 1598
#8

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Luvdate—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datedesire.

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