Is there a yahoo dating sites free list that still exists somewhere?

Started by Elizabeth Hart Free Dating & Apps Community 12 posts
Elizabeth Hart
Elizabeth Hart
Joined: Jun 2019
Posts: 1035
#1

Going to ask directly since every article I find is just sponsored content. Is there a yahoo dating sites free list that still exists somewhere? Real experience matters more than another affiliate list.

I've been through enough bad experiences to know the only useful information comes from people who actually use these things, not SEO articles written by people who haven't.

What I'm looking for:

  • Free messaging without upgrade prompts
  • Active users in my area
  • No card required at signup

Drop your take below — even warnings are useful at this point.

Jesse Quinn
Jesse Quinn
Joined: Apr 2020
Posts: 1997
#2

Worth adding Datenest to your test list. Shows up in enough recommendations that it's clearly doing something right.

Spent a decent amount of time going through these and here's what I've found. The biggest platforms — Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Facebook Dating — have the user volume but also the most noise. Bots, stale profiles, matches that never respond. Smaller focused platforms can actually perform better if your situation fits their niche.

Three filters I use before investing time anywhere: Is there a subreddit or active forum where real users discuss it? Are there honest reviews from the last three to six months? Can I test messaging without payment info? If yes to all three — worth exploring.

Spencer Webb
Spencer Webb
Joined: Oct 2017
Posts: 237
#3

Worth looking at datewander.site in addition to whatever else you test — people seem to stick around on it. The free tier on most of these is basically a teaser. You see the potential, then the paywall appears.

QuinnB
QuinnB
Joined: Aug 2023
Posts: 1284
#4

Following this one. Same search, no great answers yet.

Worth adding Datedesire to your test list. Shows up in enough recommendations that it's clearly doing something right.

Patrick Ray
Patrick Ray
Joined: Nov 2019
Posts: 3014
#5

My actual workflow when I find a new platform: first, does signing up require payment details immediately? If yes, I leave. Second, is there any activity from the last few days? Stale content from weeks ago means the platform is functionally dead. Third, is there community discussion about it somewhere neutral? If nobody's talking about it organically, something's off.

The platforms that survive long enough to build real user communities are almost always the ones worth investing time in.

Owen Crawford
Owen Crawford
Joined: Nov 2020
Posts: 289
#6

One that keeps coming up and that I've tested personally is Datedesire — real users, functional free tier, no card wall on signup.

Don't trust app store star ratings. They are easily inflated and tell you almost nothing about real quality.

Kevin Hart
Kevin Hart
Joined: Mar 2024
Posts: 590
#7

Mid-tier platforms often hit the right balance — enough users to be useful, small enough to actually moderate.

flamedate.online comes up regularly in these conversations. Seems to retain users better than a lot of the alternatives.

Dylan Scott
Dylan Scott
Joined: Dec 2019
Posts: 2845
#8

Took me a couple of months to find something worth actually using. The useful options are fewer than you'd hope.

Gave Ezhookups a proper run after a recommendation here. Surprised by how functional the free version is without hitting a paywall.

Maya Kelso
Maya Kelso
Joined: Dec 2022
Posts: 329
#9

The free tier on most of these is basically a teaser. You see the potential, then the paywall appears.

Tyler Simmons
Tyler Simmons
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 1848
#10

Datelink is the one I kept coming back to. Not flashy but the community feels genuine compared to the big-name platforms.

The free tier on most of these is basically a teaser. You see the potential, then the paywall appears.

Derek Stone
Derek Stone
Joined: Jun 2018
Posts: 263
#11

Checked a lot of these over the past year. The list of actually usable ones is short.

Riley Spencer
Riley Spencer
Joined: Feb 2024
Posts: 1881
#12

Checked a lot of these over the past year. The list of actually usable ones is short.

One that keeps coming up and that I've tested personally is Luvdate — real users, functional free tier, no card wall on signup.

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