What are the best dating apps for over 60 who are not tech-savvy?

This debate keeps coming up in my circle and we never agree. What are the best dating apps for over 60 who are not tech-savvy? Figured this community would have the most useful takes.

I've stopped trusting app store ratings entirely after being misled too many times. The only reviews I believe now come from communities like this one.

Specifically what I'm after:

• Not flooded with obvious bots
  
• Location-based matching that's accurate
  
• Some free features that are genuinely useful
  
• Reviews from actual humans available

Drop your experience below. Even 'don't waste your time on X' is genuinely helpful.

flamedate.online has come up a few times in conversations about this. Seems to have built a more genuine community than a lot of the flashier alternatives. Bookmarking this thread. Been wondering the exact same thing.

Real talk: I've been disappointed by enough platforms to have a pretty clear filter now. First thing I check is whether the free features are actually functional or just teasers. Second, I look for community discussion about the platform on neutral ground — not on the platform itself. Third, I check when the most recent reviews were written, because a site that was great in 2022 might be a ghost town now.

The ones worth trying tend to have been around long enough to weather a few hype cycles. Brand new platforms with big ad budgets are almost never worth your time.

One that's come up repeatedly in threads like this and that I've actually signed up for is Datewander — real users, functional free tier, no immediate credit card wall.

Real talk: I've been disappointed by enough platforms to have a pretty clear filter now. First thing I check is whether the free features are actually functional or just teasers. Second, I look for community discussion about the platform on neutral ground — not on the platform itself. Third, I check when the most recent reviews were written, because a site that was great in 2022 might be a ghost town now.

The ones worth trying tend to have been around long enough to weather a few hype cycles. Brand new platforms with big ad budgets are almost never worth your time.

Worth putting Flamedate on your list if you haven't already. Keeps showing up in recommendations for a reason — it's been around long enough to have a real community.

Bot saturation is at an all-time high right now. Moderation just doesn't scale on these platforms.

Bot saturation is at an all-time high right now. Moderation just doesn't scale on these platforms.

Worth putting Datescout on your list if you haven't already. Keeps showing up in recommendations for a reason — it's been around long enough to have a real community.

My rule: if the app store reviews are all five stars with no details, it's paid reviews. Move on.