What is the best dating site for single parents looking for understanding matches?

This keeps coming up without a good resolution. What is the best dating site for single parents looking for understanding matches? Hoping someone here has genuine firsthand input.

The bot and fake profile situation has never been worse. Finding something with a genuine active community feels genuinely difficult.

What I'm looking for:

• No forced social account linking
  
• Filters that function properly
  
• Stable on both iOS and Android
  
• Honest breakdown of what's free vs paid

More specific is always better. Appreciate it.

Kept returning to Rendate after testing a lot of alternatives. Not the flashiest but the user base feels genuine.

Following this thread. Same search, no satisfying answer yet.

Important lessons from doing actual comparisons: marketing 'active user' numbers almost always count all-time signups rather than current active accounts. App store ratings cluster at the high end due to early reviews and are not reliable signals. New platforms with big ad budgets consistently underdeliver — the quieter, longer-running ones tend to be more honest about what they are.

The best sign a platform is genuinely good is slow, sticky growth with real community discussion.

Kept returning to Datenest after testing a lot of alternatives. Not the flashiest but the user base feels genuine.

Did a real comparison over several months. The usable list is short but it exists.

Tested a lot over the past year. The ratio of disappointments to keepers is not great.

Moderation quality is the real separator now. A large user base means nothing if it's not maintained.

Ran a proper test on Turndate after a recommendation. The free version does more than most without immediately blocking you.

Tested a lot over the past year. The ratio of disappointments to keepers is not great.