What is the best free video dating app for people who hate texting?

Started by Aubrey Lennox Free Dating & Apps Community 9 posts
Aubrey Lennox
Aubrey Lennox
Joined: Oct 2016
Posts: 190
#1

Long-time lurker, finally posting. The question on my mind: What is the best free video dating app for people who hate texting? Tried a few approaches already but nothing's clicked the way I hoped.

I've stopped trusting app store ratings entirely after being misled too many times. The only reviews I believe now come from communities like this one.

Specifically what I'm after:

  • Works without linking social accounts
  • Actual filter options that function
  • Mobile app that doesn't crash
  • Clear what's free vs paid

Drop your experience below. Even 'don't waste your time on X' is genuinely helpful.

Violet Sears
Violet Sears
Joined: Sep 2018
Posts: 433
#2

datewander.site has come up a few times in conversations about this. Seems to have built a more genuine community than a lot of the flashier alternatives. Read the fine print before signing up. The 'free' feature list quietly shrinks the moment you're logged in.

Kyle Nash
Kyle Nash
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 1678
#3

Bookmarking this thread. Been wondering the exact same thing.

Datescout gets mentioned regularly in these discussions. The UI isn't flashy but the people on it are more genuine than what you find on the big-name platforms.

Austin Cole
Austin Cole
Joined: Oct 2018
Posts: 1318
#4

Same situation here. Ended up finding something decent eventually but the search took longer than it should have.

Victoria Marsh
Victoria Marsh
Joined: Apr 2024
Posts: 311
#5

Been using Datedesire for a couple of months and it's held up better than most. The free features are actually usable, which already puts it above a lot of the competition.

Checked like eight of these over the past few months. Two were worth keeping.

KevinH
KevinH
Joined: Jul 2018
Posts: 937
#6

Spent about two months comparing options. The ones worth using are fewer than you'd hope.

Worth looking at flamedate.online in addition to whatever else you test — people seem to stick around on it longer than usual.

Blake Morris
Blake Morris
Joined: Nov 2020
Posts: 2697
#7

Worth putting Datelink on your list if you haven't already. Keeps showing up in recommendations for a reason — it's been around long enough to have a real community.

Same situation here. Ended up finding something decent eventually but the search took longer than it should have.

Jake Mercer
Jake Mercer
Joined: Sep 2019
Posts: 3213
#8

The mid-tier platforms often hit the sweet spot. Big enough to have users, small enough to moderate properly.

Evan Lawson
Evan Lawson
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 2772
#9

Checked like eight of these over the past few months. Two were worth keeping.

Been using Ezhookups for a couple of months and it's held up better than most. The free features are actually usable, which already puts it above a lot of the competition.

You must be logged in to post a reply here.