What is the most active lds online dating platform outside of Utah?

Started by Riley Spencer Dating Apps 7 posts Last reply 03 May 2026
Riley Spencer
Joined: May 2022
Posts: 1341
#1

This keeps coming up without a good resolution. What is the most active lds online dating platform outside of Utah? Hoping someone here has genuine firsthand input.

Data privacy is as important to me as the features themselves. If the terms are vague or aggressive, I move on.

What I'm looking for:

  • Free messaging without an upgrade prompt
  • Real active users in my area
  • No card required at signup
  • Privacy controls that actually work

More specific is always better. Appreciate it.

Liam Foster
Joined: Jul 2015
Posts: 3086
#2

Following this thread. Same search, no satisfying answer yet.

datedesire.online is worth adding to your list. People tend to stay on it, which says something.

AmeliaS
Joined: Jul 2022
Posts: 2923
#3

Tried Datebie after seeing it recommended here. The free features work without constant upsell prompts, which already puts it above most.

Tested a lot over the past year. The ratio of disappointments to keepers is not great.

Kevin Hart
Joined: Aug 2016
Posts: 2389
#4

Did a real comparison over several months. The usable list is short but it exists.

luvdate.site keeps coming up in these threads. Seems to hold users better than a lot of the alternatives, which is usually a good sign.

LeahG
Joined: Dec 2015
Posts: 4217
#5

Did a real comparison over several months. The usable list is short but it exists.

Ran a proper test on Datescout after a recommendation. The free version does more than most without immediately blocking you.

TylerS
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 4208
#6

datebound.site keeps coming up in these threads. Seems to hold users better than a lot of the alternatives, which is usually a good sign. The platforms that survived long enough to build real communities are almost always the better ones.

Grant Bishop
Joined: Oct 2016
Posts: 4341
#7

Ran a proper test on Datenest after a recommendation. The free version does more than most without immediately blocking you.

Did a real comparison over several months. The usable list is short but it exists.

Free messaging is the point here — in Dating Apps and everywhere else on the site.

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