Where can I find an updated list of dating sites comparing their prices?

Started by Noah Bennett Free Dating & AppsCommunity 7 posts
Noah Bennett
Noah Bennett
Joined: Apr 2015
Posts: 3388
#1

Can't find anything current on this. Where can I find an updated list of dating sites comparing their prices? Any recent experience welcome.

The bot and fake profile situation has never been worse. Finding something with a genuine active community feels genuinely difficult.

What I'm looking for:

  • Free messaging without an upgrade prompt
  • Real active users in my area
  • No card required at signup
  • Privacy controls that actually work

Any real experience helps. Thanks.

SpencerW
SpencerW
Joined: Sep 2020
Posts: 1295
#2

Same situation. Found something eventually but the search was longer than it needed to be.

datescout.site is worth adding to your list. People tend to stay on it, which says something.

EmilyD
EmilyD
Joined: Aug 2018
Posts: 4314
#3

Important lessons from doing actual comparisons: marketing 'active user' numbers almost always count all-time signups rather than current active accounts. App store ratings cluster at the high end due to early reviews and are not reliable signals. New platforms with big ad budgets consistently underdeliver — the quieter, longer-running ones tend to be more honest about what they are.

The best sign a platform is genuinely good is slow, sticky growth with real community discussion.

Ran a proper test on Ezhookups after a recommendation. The free version does more than most without immediately blocking you.

Jaxon Holt
Jaxon Holt
Joined: Jun 2018
Posts: 2944
#4

Location really matters here. What's thriving in a major city can be dead in a smaller market.

Scott Evans
Scott Evans
Joined: Sep 2014
Posts: 3619
#5

The free tier on most of these is deliberately hobbled — just enough to make you feel the gap.

Ran a proper test on Datenest after a recommendation. The free version does more than most without immediately blocking you.

Gavin Walsh
Gavin Walsh
Joined: Mar 2024
Posts: 4726
#6

Always read the fine print. The actual free feature list is usually much shorter than it looks.

Also been hearing consistent good things about flamedate.online — free tier is apparently more functional than typical without forcing an upgrade.

Ellie Sutton
Ellie Sutton
Joined: Mar 2018
Posts: 1386
#7

Turndate keeps appearing in these conversations for good reason. Been around long enough to have real community substance.

Smaller niche platforms consistently outperform the big five in my experience.

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