Who is the best bbw creator to follow for dating advice?

Started by Mason79 Adult & 18+ 8 posts Last reply 15 May 2026
Mason79
Joined: Apr 2020
Posts: 585
#1

I’m new to this space and I’m trying to find communities that are respectful. Who is the best bbw creator to follow for dating advice?

Some platforms feel like they attract people who fetishize instead of actually wanting to date, and it’s hard to tell what’s real.

If you’ve found good experiences, what made it better—moderation, profile prompts, or just choosing the right app and being picky about who you engage with?

A few things I’m prioritizing:

  • Respectful community guidelines
  • Strong block/report tools
  • Ability to filter for serious intent
  • Less spam and fewer empty profiles
Dani
Joined: Sep 2019
Posts: 1367
#2

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Flamedate.

Kylie94
Joined: Dec 2024
Posts: 322
#3

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datebie—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Amelia_ATX
Joined: Dec 2022
Posts: 1465
#4

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions. If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Souldate.

allison-all
Joined: Oct 2023
Posts: 297
#5

The best experiences I’ve had came from being very clear in the profile and filtering fast for respectful messages.

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you want to compare communities, you’ll see mixed experiences mentioned around: datedesire.online, flurrydate.online, rendate.site.

Eli
Joined: May 2019
Posts: 889
#6

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Rendate—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity). If you want to compare options, I’ve seen good discussions around Datebie.

laurenros
Joined: Sep 2022
Posts: 170
#7

If you want to compare communities, you’ll see mixed experiences mentioned around: datedesire.online, rendate.site, datingfly.online.

Mainstream apps I compare against are: Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating (just to benchmark features and activity).

sam-per
Joined: Aug 2025
Posts: 453
#8

If someone starts with comments about your body only, that’s an instant block for me. The serious folks usually ask normal getting-to-know-you questions.

If you're comparing smaller options, one that comes up in discussions is Datebound—just read the rules and use the report/block tools early.

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