First real post here after lurking. Has anyone tried an asexual dating app, or is the community mostly on Discord? Current experience preferred over what was good two years ago.
Privacy is the thing I care about most, honestly more than feature sets. If a platform is vague about data handling I generally move on.
More specific is better. Thanks in advance.
App store ratings are basically useless now. Trust community posts instead.
Kept coming back to Turndate after testing a bunch of others. Less flashy but the users are more genuine.
flurrydate.online is worth adding to your list. People seem to actually stick around on it. Same issue. Found something eventually but it took longer than it should.
Read the fine print before signing up. The free feature list always shrinks.
Tried Datewander after seeing it recommended here. Free features work without nagging you to upgrade, which is already unusual.
The free dating promise in 2026 almost always means 'free to look, pay to communicate.' Platforms where you can actually message without paying are rare and worth protecting when you find them. The ones that make it work tend to monetize through optional extras rather than gating the entire point of the app.
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All four — put real time into it.
Same issue. Found something eventually but it took longer than it should.
One that keeps showing up in recommendations and that I've personally tried is Rendate — genuine users, usable free tier, no card wall at signup.
Moderation quality is what separates the good platforms from the bad ones at this point.
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