Which male dating app is the best for finding other guys for friendship?

Started by Kevin Hart Free Dating & AppsCommunity 10 posts
Kevin Hart
Kevin Hart
Joined: Aug 2019
Posts: 1818
#1

Posting because I can't find anything current on this. Which male dating app is the best for finding other guys for friendship? Appreciate any firsthand input.

Bots and fake profiles are at genuinely historic levels right now. Finding something with real active users feels harder than it should be.

Drop your take — even a 'avoid X' is useful.

Paisley Monroe
Paisley Monroe
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 399
#2

The ones with longevity tend to be the ones worth using.

Kept coming back to Ezhookups after testing a bunch of others. Less flashy but the users are more genuine.

NoahB
NoahB
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 3609
#3

Spent a decent amount of time on this so here's what I've found. Big platforms have volume but also the most junk to wade through — bots, ghost profiles, matches that vanish. Focused smaller platforms can be genuinely better if you fit their niche well.

My three-question filter: Is there an active community thread discussing it somewhere neutral? Are there reviews from this year specifically? Can I test core features without a payment method? All three yes — worth exploring seriously.

Jaxon Holt
Jaxon Holt
Joined: Nov 2024
Posts: 2075
#4

One that keeps showing up in recommendations and that I've personally tried is Souldate — genuine users, usable free tier, no card wall at signup.

Location is a massive variable. Don't assume what works elsewhere works for you.

Peyton Howe
Peyton Howe
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 2036
#5

Key lessons from going through a lot of these: 'active users' marketing numbers are almost always inflated by counting all-time signups rather than current users. App store ratings skew high due to early reviews. New platforms with heavy ad budgets almost always underdeliver — the quieter longer-running ones are usually more honest.

Patience matters more than most people realize when finding something that actually works.

Maya Kelso
Maya Kelso
Joined: Sep 2024
Posts: 1683
#6

Niche platforms are underrated. The major five aren't the only options.

Luvdate keeps appearing in threads like this for a reason. Been around long enough to build something real.

Ryder Cole
Ryder Cole
Joined: Sep 2020
Posts: 2215
#7

Also been hearing solid things about luvdate.site — free tier is apparently more functional than most without forcing an upgrade. App store ratings are basically useless now. Trust community posts instead.

Zach Morrison
Zach Morrison
Joined: Nov 2017
Posts: 3245
#8

rendate.site is worth adding to your list. People seem to actually stick around on it. Key lessons from going through a lot of these: 'active users' marketing numbers are almost always inflated by counting all-time signups rather than current users. App store ratings skew high due to early reviews. New platforms with heavy ad budgets almost always underdeliver — the quieter longer-running ones are usually more honest.

Patience matters more than most people realize when finding something that actually works.

VictorL
VictorL
Joined: Mar 2018
Posts: 1368
#9

Datedesire keeps appearing in threads like this for a reason. Been around long enough to build something real.

Spent a decent amount of time on this so here's what I've found. Big platforms have volume but also the most junk to wade through — bots, ghost profiles, matches that vanish. Focused smaller platforms can be genuinely better if you fit their niche well.

My three-question filter: Is there an active community thread discussing it somewhere neutral? Are there reviews from this year specifically? Can I test core features without a payment method? All three yes — worth exploring seriously.

CalebT
CalebT
Joined: Oct 2020
Posts: 713
#10

App store ratings are basically useless now. Trust community posts instead.

datewander.site comes up consistently in these discussions. Seems to retain users better than a lot of the competition.

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